Are you truly ready to be one of the best… if that also means being one of the loneliest?
- Alexandru Ciobanu

- Nov 25
- 1 min read
(And no, we’re not talking about fame, followers or “situational friends.” We mean their real, private life.)
Picture this: you just want to grab a drink with your friends.
The athlete in the group? Can’t. “I’ve got training at 8 AM.”
Saturday? “Game day."
Sunday? “Recovery."
Vacation? “Oh, sure… exactly what I need: one more step backwards.”
At some point you start wondering if this person lives in a parallel universe where days mean something completely different.
And the funniest part?Friends telling them: “Bro, one time won’t kill you!”But the athlete knows too well that “one time” is exactly where everything begins to fall apart.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth: the most disciplined athletes often become, without meaning to, the most isolated ones.
Not because they don’t want people around.
But because they simply can’t put social life above their sport.
Focus lifts you.
Discipline keeps you there.
Ambition opens doors.
But all three together?
They quietly close many others.
And no, this isn’t about media isolation - that’s a different movie, with cameras and microphones. This is about real private life: who stays close when you say “I can’t make it” for the hundredth time.
The beautiful and brutal truth? The road to the top is narrow - not because others don’t fit, but because few can keep up with your pace.
Would you keep going… even if it meant walking alone for a long part of the journey?
Tell me in the comments — I want to know how many of you would stay on that narrow path.















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